Normally I wouldn’t do this. But hey no one knows who I am or anything about me.
Since my husband and I separated I have not talked bad about him or told anyone our business. When people asked “Hey what happened to you and David?” I say things just didn’t work out. I have been very mature about the entire thing…until now!
I am irate! So here is why…..I am from a very small town where everyone knows everyone. My husband’s family is very well known in our community and owns several businesses. His parents are the sweetest people on the planet! So with that being said everyone thinks David is a perfect southern gentleman….so did I that is how he comes off.
Well no one knows the dark truth about David. And I am about to fill you in on a little secret in a way I wish the bastard would read this!
As I was checking out at a very well known market in my town a young man approached me telling me he saw my husband at a local bar with a trashy looking girl. (I am not trying to be conceited, but I have a college degree, I am petite…I AM the girl you want to take home to momma….despite my obsession with sex lol) anyways he described this girl as tatted up, smoking and bleach blonde hair with her roots showing….TOTALLY OPPOSITE OF ME! anyways he went on to say that He mentioned me and my husband soon to be ex husband had informed him I had an affair with a cop.
So apparently everyone now thinks I had an affair!!! I ABSOLUTELY DID NOT HAVE AN AFFAIR! I want the world to know why we are divorcing! And I am going to tell you guys so I can let out my frustrations!!!! My husband has anger problems….. my husband was very abusive to me, physically and emotionally… He also had a drinking problem. He choked me….he locked me in a room and refused to let me out….he would tell me I was worth nothing and that I was disgusting to him. He would control the money and I could never pay my bills until he had his beer bought for the week….So if there wasn’t enough money left for my bills it didn’t matter.
I understand sleeping with my friend with benefits is not a good idea considering I am STILL married, but we separated in February and my friends with benefits didn’t start until the end of April! That was the first person I have had sex with since my husband! But I have needs and I just miss having someone to be physical with. I know it’s not right but my marriage was over long before this even happened.
During this entire separation I never spoke badly of him because we both have very important careers that we have to have a very good reputation for. I didn’t want to ruin that for him so I never told the truth about why we were getting a divorce!
Now that I have found out the lies he has told makes me want to post on every social networking site the truth! But I am going to be more mature than that. I hope people do not believe the lies about me but I am sure they will because Davis is such a “southern gentleman”. But I have never in my life felt so betrayed.. how can someone who supposedly loved you try to bring you down so low!???
Being only 25 going through a divorce is embarrassing! Our marriage didn’t even make it a full year and that’s even more embarrassing and now that I walk into a store I know people are looking at me thinking I had an affair. I just don’t understand….. life is very fucked up! But I will not continue to let him hurt me so if you want to believe I had an affair so be it! I’m happier now because I can come home unafraid of what is going to happen! I am no longer walking on eggshells!
David, you are by far the shittiest person I have ever met and karma is coming for you! I can’t wait until the day our divorce is final..I will walk away and never look back….HERE IS A BIG FUCK YOU TO YOU ASSHOLE!